In one of the religious growth models, the majority of persons who follow a religion do so because of belief and practice within their family. Those who follow the religion taught and practiced in their family due so because of the religious atmosphere. Since the adults in the family follow a particular religion, young members naturally associate themselves with the religious belief of their families.
This point can be verified by Rodney Stark's theory. Conversion to Christianity from the time of Constantine until the Protestant Reformation relied on social networks and social care to attract believers. It may have spread after the Enlightenment in that country by family generations.
This is even more the case with Islam. Because Islam has the characteristics of a national religion, religion acquisition in the family has become the main mode of evangelism.
However, China is an exception. Becoming a religious believer in the family is not the most important growth model. The most important growth model is need-based conversion.
The growth of Christianity in China depends on its unique religious environment. Following various political movements such as the Cultural Revolution in the past centuries, other religions were eliminated. Finally, Christianity became a dominant religion. Therefore, when the environment changed, Christianity naturally had no competitors. Those potential believers who might want to convert to other folk religions had no choice but to convert to Christianity.
Once a person is converted, the family should play a vital role in the spread and growth of Christianity, but in fact, it does not.
Family is the main place where social interaction takes place. Socialization refers to the transformation process from a natural person to a social person. Family plays an important role in the socialization of humans. Besides family, school is also an important place where social life takes place. When persons convert to Christianity, there is often a competition between family and school. This weakens the role of the family in conversion.
Becoming Christian through family influence depends on a variety of factors relevant to how children grow up. If Christians are not the majority in their family, then it becomes difficult for family members to be converted.
For a variety of reasons, most persons in China do not become Christian because they have believers in their families. However, apart from the need for conversion, religion acquisition in the family is second only to the need-based conversion. Yet, in traditional Chinese Christianity, it is family does not play an important role in the development of Christians.
In preaching the gospel, the Church emphasizes the benefits of believing in Jesus, for example, curing diseases and overcoming crises. Therefore, we always place need-based conversion first.
Up to now, the traditional Christian doctrine lacks the importance of family building. When I was a child, my concept of Christianity was that believing in Jesus guaranteed the whole family a place in Heaven. If there is one family member who doesn't believe it, then the family cannot be reunited in heaven. This type of gospel message is one of intimidation and seduction and it can't bring about family conversion.
Christianity's neglect of building a family is also reflected in the fact that there are only general doctrines in its family conversion plan. There is no detailed guide to practical operation. In other words, slogans are louder than action. In addition, slogans are subject to the demand for conversion. The message is usually something like this: after believing in Jesus, your whole family will be successful. That is particularly attractive to those unsuccessful family members.
What’s more, in the process of family socialization, the behavior norms and guidelines provided by believers for children often conflict with society. In this way, even if a child is converted to Christianity and becomes a member of a church before entering the society at an early age, once the child enters the society, due to the conflict, they often abandon the previously accepted Christian norms and give up their conversion to Christianity and church membership. Twenty years ago, the vigorous Sunday school movement in Wenzhou did not bring the tide of faith conversion after these Sunday school members entered the society. You know, most of these members were born and raised in Christian families. It is said that the proportion of Sunday school members who were converted to Christianity after graduating from college is less than 7%. However, among these converted minority they may give up their faith in the future growth process.
The reason is that the Church ignores the family building as well as the link and continuity between Christian ethics and social norms.
The key point is that traditional Christianity cannot establish personality for the new born members in family norms. It is often an unsound personality with many defects. When the person enters the society, he can’t connect with social ethics norms and standards. Therefore, it is impossible for the person to effectively interact with other social members and participate in social groups. He either stays in a church or abandons this Christian norm. There is no better alternative.
Jesus attaches great importance to the role of the family in the spread of the gospel. He raised children to an unprecedented height. Even today, we seem far behind: "At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a little child and had him stand among them. And he said: "I tell you the truth unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me." (Matthew 18:1-5) It can be said that children have always been the center of Jesus' concern and the central object of evangelism, but this does not seem to be the case in traditional Christianity.
Traditional churches attach importance to the need for religious conversion, which leads to their neglect of family socialization or their inability to build an effective family because of their limited educational level.
With the continuous improvement of social welfare and public cultural facilities, the status of Christianity in need-based conversion may be replaced by social security, which will lead to the stagnation of Christian growth. At this time, acquired conversion in the family should become the main window of Christian growth, but the present situation may not be so satisfactory. That is worthy of reflection by every Christian.
- Translated by Charlie Li
浅谈:家庭习得与基督教皈信的关系
在宗教增长模式中,家庭习得占据很大的比例。家庭习得是指,家庭的宗教氛围或者家庭主要成员的宗教皈信,给在这个家庭中新成员的成长带来影响,自然而然获得该宗教信仰的认同。
这一点,我们通过斯塔克的理论可以验证,如果说基督教在君士坦丁国教化之前的皈信依然依靠社会网络,依靠自身社会关怀来吸引信徒,那么国教化之后,可能就依靠家庭的代际传播了。
而伊斯兰教更是如此,由于其国教化的特点,家庭习得性皈信更是成为其宗教传播的主要模式。
但是在中国,可能有些意外,家庭习得的皈依模式,没有成为最主要的增长模式。最主要的增长模式是处境需求性皈信。
中国基督教的增长,有赖于宗教特殊的环境。经过历次的政治运动,其它宗教已经被消灭,最后基督教成为一支独大的宗教,因此当环境转变,基督教自然没有竞争对手,那些潜在的可能皈依其它民间宗教的信徒,也就别无选择地皈依在基督教之下。
在第一场需求性皈依之后,家庭在基督教的传播和增长方面应该扮演着至关重要的作用,但是事实并没有。
家庭在众多的社会设置中,是主要的社会化场所。社会化在社会学上是个重要的概念,是指一个自然人到社会人的转变过程。而社会化中,家庭则是重要的一环。除了家庭之外,学校也是社会化的主要社会设置。在家庭与学校之间,在基督教皈信上,往往产生竞争性,从而弱化或者替代家庭习得的皈信效果。
家庭习得性皈信中,还要看孩子与谁在一起成长的因素,如果家庭成员中,归信基督教的人员并不在占据多数,或者不主导家庭生活,那么这种习得性皈信也无法实现。
因此鉴于种种因素,家庭习得式皈信,在中国基督教增长中,并不占据主要。但是除了需求皈信之外,家庭习得也是仅次于需求性皈信的方式。但是在中国传统基督教中,并未将家庭皈信放在自身发展的主要地位。
教会在传福音的过程中,强调的是信耶稣的效果,疾病得医治,危机得度过等,因此始终把需求性皈信放在首位。
传统基督教教义内容中,至今缺乏对家庭建造的重视。笔者小时候,对基督教的概念就是信耶稣全家上天堂,如果家庭成员中有一个不信,那么就无法在天堂团聚。这种传播方式,是恐吓加引诱的方式,并不能带来家庭皈信。
基督教对营造家庭的忽略,还表现在其传播的家庭皈信中,只有笼统的教义目标,却缺乏实际操作的细节指南,换句话说就是口号胜于行动。此外,这种口号还是服从于需求性皈信,也就是信耶稣之后,全家都会顺利,这对于那些家庭成员中不顺利的人来说,是有吸引力的。
此外,信徒在家庭社会化过程中,为孩子所提供的的行为规范和准则,往往与社会冲突过大,这样即使孩子在幼年,未进入社会之前皈信基督教,成为教会成员,但是一旦进入社会,在这种冲突的重新选择中,往往会抛弃先前接受的基督教规范,从而放弃基督教皈信和教会成员身份。在二十年前温州轰轰烈烈的主日学运动,却没有带来这些主日学成员进入社会之后的皈信潮,要知道这些成员大多出生成长于基督教家庭中。据说有人统计过,对主日学成员大学毕业之后,皈信基督教的比例,不足百分之七。而这些皈信的少数人中,在将来的成长过程中,还可能放弃。
究其原因,那就是教会忽略了家庭建造,忽略了基督教伦理规范与社会规范之间的链接和延续。
关键是传统基督教无法在家庭规范中,为新出生的成员建立人格,这种建立往往是不健全的人格,有很多缺陷,当他在进入社会之后,无法与社会伦理规范和准则对接,这样就不能有效地与其它社会成员互动和社会群体参与。他要么留在教会之内,要么放弃这种基督教规范,其它并没有更好的选择。
耶稣是很重视家庭在福音传播中的作用的,他把孩子提高到前所未有的高度,即使在今天看来,也是望尘莫及,“当时,门徒进前来,问耶稣说:“天国里谁是最大的?”耶稣便叫一个小孩子来,使他站在他们当中,说:“我实在告诉你们,你们若不回转,变成小孩子的样式,断不得进天国。所以,凡自己谦卑像这小孩子的,他在天国里就是最大的。凡为我的名接待一个像这小孩子的,就是接待我。”(马太福音 18:1-5)可以说孩子一直是耶稣关注的中心,也是福音传播的中心对象。但是在传统基督教里,好像并不是如此。
传统教会对需求性皈信的重视,导致他们对家庭社会化的忽略,或者因为文化水平的有限,而对有效的家庭建造束手无策。
在社会保障和公共文化设施不断完善的情况下,基督教在需求性皈信的地位可能被社会保障替代,从而带来基督教增长的停滞,那么此时家庭习得性皈信就应该成为基督教增长的主要窗口,但是现状可能并不是那么尽如人意,这是值得我们每一个基督徒反思的。
In one of the religious growth models, the majority of persons who follow a religion do so because of belief and practice within their family. Those who follow the religion taught and practiced in their family due so because of the religious atmosphere. Since the adults in the family follow a particular religion, young members naturally associate themselves with the religious belief of their families.
This point can be verified by Rodney Stark's theory. Conversion to Christianity from the time of Constantine until the Protestant Reformation relied on social networks and social care to attract believers. It may have spread after the Enlightenment in that country by family generations.
This is even more the case with Islam. Because Islam has the characteristics of a national religion, religion acquisition in the family has become the main mode of evangelism.
However, China is an exception. Becoming a religious believer in the family is not the most important growth model. The most important growth model is need-based conversion.
The growth of Christianity in China depends on its unique religious environment. Following various political movements such as the Cultural Revolution in the past centuries, other religions were eliminated. Finally, Christianity became a dominant religion. Therefore, when the environment changed, Christianity naturally had no competitors. Those potential believers who might want to convert to other folk religions had no choice but to convert to Christianity.
Once a person is converted, the family should play a vital role in the spread and growth of Christianity, but in fact, it does not.
Family is the main place where social interaction takes place. Socialization refers to the transformation process from a natural person to a social person. Family plays an important role in the socialization of humans. Besides family, school is also an important place where social life takes place. When persons convert to Christianity, there is often a competition between family and school. This weakens the role of the family in conversion.
Becoming Christian through family influence depends on a variety of factors relevant to how children grow up. If Christians are not the majority in their family, then it becomes difficult for family members to be converted.
For a variety of reasons, most persons in China do not become Christian because they have believers in their families. However, apart from the need for conversion, religion acquisition in the family is second only to the need-based conversion. Yet, in traditional Chinese Christianity, it is family does not play an important role in the development of Christians.
In preaching the gospel, the Church emphasizes the benefits of believing in Jesus, for example, curing diseases and overcoming crises. Therefore, we always place need-based conversion first.
Up to now, the traditional Christian doctrine lacks the importance of family building. When I was a child, my concept of Christianity was that believing in Jesus guaranteed the whole family a place in Heaven. If there is one family member who doesn't believe it, then the family cannot be reunited in heaven. This type of gospel message is one of intimidation and seduction and it can't bring about family conversion.
Christianity's neglect of building a family is also reflected in the fact that there are only general doctrines in its family conversion plan. There is no detailed guide to practical operation. In other words, slogans are louder than action. In addition, slogans are subject to the demand for conversion. The message is usually something like this: after believing in Jesus, your whole family will be successful. That is particularly attractive to those unsuccessful family members.
What’s more, in the process of family socialization, the behavior norms and guidelines provided by believers for children often conflict with society. In this way, even if a child is converted to Christianity and becomes a member of a church before entering the society at an early age, once the child enters the society, due to the conflict, they often abandon the previously accepted Christian norms and give up their conversion to Christianity and church membership. Twenty years ago, the vigorous Sunday school movement in Wenzhou did not bring the tide of faith conversion after these Sunday school members entered the society. You know, most of these members were born and raised in Christian families. It is said that the proportion of Sunday school members who were converted to Christianity after graduating from college is less than 7%. However, among these converted minority they may give up their faith in the future growth process.
The reason is that the Church ignores the family building as well as the link and continuity between Christian ethics and social norms.
The key point is that traditional Christianity cannot establish personality for the new born members in family norms. It is often an unsound personality with many defects. When the person enters the society, he can’t connect with social ethics norms and standards. Therefore, it is impossible for the person to effectively interact with other social members and participate in social groups. He either stays in a church or abandons this Christian norm. There is no better alternative.
Jesus attaches great importance to the role of the family in the spread of the gospel. He raised children to an unprecedented height. Even today, we seem far behind: "At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a little child and had him stand among them. And he said: "I tell you the truth unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me." (Matthew 18:1-5) It can be said that children have always been the center of Jesus' concern and the central object of evangelism, but this does not seem to be the case in traditional Christianity.
Traditional churches attach importance to the need for religious conversion, which leads to their neglect of family socialization or their inability to build an effective family because of their limited educational level.
With the continuous improvement of social welfare and public cultural facilities, the status of Christianity in need-based conversion may be replaced by social security, which will lead to the stagnation of Christian growth. At this time, acquired conversion in the family should become the main window of Christian growth, but the present situation may not be so satisfactory. That is worthy of reflection by every Christian.
- Translated by Charlie Li
Christianity in China Grows Mostly by Need-based Conversion, not Religion Acquisition in Family